The 5 Best Cats For Kids And Why You Should Get One
No matter what the breed is, cats have a lot to offer your little ones – from companionship to cuddles. And for whatever reason, I noticed that cats might be a bit aloof and cold to adults, but they seem extra affectionate towards little children.
But then again, it depends on which kind. Some kitties are sweet to their owners and even to dogs. So if you’re planning to buy one for your infant or toddler, check out this list for the best cats for kids. Although to be honest, I would get every single one of them if I can.
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When I was still pregnant, I loved looking at photos of babies with their pets. I just found it so cute watching them play and interact with each other like they’re lifelong pals.
Add in the fact that one of my best friends bought a Ragdoll cat for her toddler; I was so envious and already sold on the idea that my baby will have a feline companion when he’s old enough.
If you’re not that convinced to get your child a furry friend, I’ll have you know that these pets especially the highly-energetic ones, can help lure your kids outside. You no longer have to worry about asking them to turn off the TV, put down the iPad and catch some sunshine.
They will go out voluntarily if they have cats to play with, trust me. And besides, that’s way more fun that being stuck in front of a gadget. Here's a bonus: a psychiatrist found that cats have a calming effect not just on the baby but all the occupants of the house.
Your kids will also be more empathetic and caring when growing up with a cat.
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Things To Remember
1. You need a cat-friendly and kid-free space at home.
This point is important because cats often feel stressed out when they have no place to retreat. First things first, they need an area where they can perch (similar to trees) and watch the house occupants.
You don’t need an entire room for this, anything elevated (no decors) will do. It can be just a shelf or cabinet. Second, your feline friend should have a kid-free zone where they can nap, eat and poop without disturbance.
The last thing you’d want is for your toddler to start creeping up on your cat while it’s feeding.
2. Choose adult cats (those around 2-3 years old) instead of kittens.
There are three reasons for this: one is for safety purposes. Kittens have sharp teeth and claws which may be dangerous to your kid. Two, your tot can scare kittens, and may be a bit too rough in handling the young and fragile ones.
Three, just like a newborn baby, a small kitty will require grooming, training, and socialization. That would be tough to meet if you have an infant at home.
3. Teach your toddler how to pet the cat correctly.
There are times when your puss wants some alone time, and it’s important that your kid knows how to read signals to avoid any conflict. Demonstrate how to pet with an open hand and emphasize the need to avoid grabbing the cat since it may perceive such actions as a threat.
Best Cats For Kids
1. Absynnian
Known as one of the friendliest and most sociable breeds, they look regal and elegant because they resemble those ancient Egyptian cats you often see on TV. They like to jump and climb high.
The Absynnian is kid-friendly and extremely playful. They only weigh anywhere between 6 to 10 pounds and are remarkably intelligent, not to mention inquisitive. But on the downside, they have the propensity to grab things that catch their attention or interest thus earning the nickname “Aby-grabby”.
It seems like the Absynnian is always in motion, always busy. Though they're affectionate and loyal, they're recommended for kids who are six years old and above. They seek attention – lots of it. They are most likely to be clingy at dinnertime.
In fact, you’d probably find them attached to your legs. Nevertheless, you may find them easily adaptable and should you decide to add another feline as their companion, go for a similar breed.
2. Maine Coon
A feline with a bushy tail and shaggy fur, this breed is smart, can adapt to his environment (they can wrap their tail around their body if it gets too cold) and is extremely lovable. Unlike the Absynnian, though, they can be quite vocal.
They're nature-lovers too and are playful, making them excellent companions for kids and even dogs. Affectionately called the ‘Gentle Giant’ by some, they can reach out and wrap their tuft paws in door knobs thus allowing them to open doors.
Yikes!
You may want to be extra careful with locks on your doors especially if there are things you need to keep away from the cat. The Maine Coon, unlike other breeds, does not crave attention.
They're content with hanging out with you and your kids – sit next to you or follow you around. They are so chill and easy-going about everything which can be ideal for first-time cat owners since they are independent and easy to groom.
They like socializing with people without being clingy. Some games they like to play include fetching small balls or even crumpled pieces of paper. It's a fun activity for them and your wee ones. Oh and they love water too!
3. Manx
They're pretty much ‘The Flash’ of the feline world because they can quickly accelerate and turn. You will often find them at the highest possible space in your house (like top shelves) because they can jump high thanks to their strong back legs.
Like the Maine Coon, they're fascinated with playing with water. Known for being calm and composed (slamming a door can startle them!), they won’t say no to a game of fetch, however. Because some Manx cats lack a tail, it poses a health risk for them.
They can suffer from the 'Manx Syndrome' or problems with their stance and walk. They being around people and will be great for kids because they’re even-tempered.
However, no one would want to mess with this breed because they to be overprotective of their home. Tell your wee ones to try talking to them and you’ll realize these furry friends can carry on a conversation!
4. Burmese
While they may be a bit of a lap cat, they can be mischievous at times mostly when they're bored. They're intelligent and can mimic your actions like a toddler. Case in point, you might catch them hiding your keys in their secret stash.
And if you see your cabinet doors wide open, they might be the culprit since they're good at opening them. They're inquisitive and always want to satisfy their curiosity about lots of things, and they’ll want to participate and ‘assist’ you in doing your chores.
They will also follow your tot around, lugging behind him or waiting for him at the door. They’re always up for a fetching game, basically, anything just to amuse and entertain your children. You’ll know when they’re annoyed because they’ll start to purr.
You’ll like looking at their satin-like coat which may require regular grooming. Kids will love the Burmese because of their playful and active nature.
They know when somebody’s feeling down and will most likely do what they can to provide comfort -- perfect when your toddler is having a tantrum. Be wary though because they can be a little too trusting and will be friendly even to strangers.
5. Birman
This gentle cat can learn tricks so fast, but they prefer doing them in a graceful and dignified manner. Unlike the other breeds on this list, the Birman doesn’t enjoy perching on the top of the door or shelves. They prefer staying on the ground.
However, you may want to consider getting them a pet companion since they would like that better. The Birman doesn’t like being alone which is why they will tag along your kid at home.
You need to mind what they eat though since they have a tendency to be overweight. Also considering taking the cat out for walks with your kids or encouraging any form of daily exercise.
Their sweet personality and well-mannered disposition make them easy to love. And your little one may enjoy talking to this Sacred Cat of Burma (another name of this breed) because of their soft voice, and while they like curling in your lap, they’re also up for games like fetching a ball or retrieving tossed objects.
Cats Are Sweet Creatures Too
We have this common misconception that dogs make the best pets for kids, but these furry felines prove they can be great companions too. I especially love how they can make your little ones more outgoing and empathetic towards others.
And helping the tots go out and play is a big plus!
Which one are you planning to get and why? Share with us in the comments!
