One of the most critical milestones in every child’s life is when they learn to poop and pee on their own. They can’t wear diapers forever.

Aside from the unnecessary expense (they could use up at least four nappies in a day unless you’re using cloth diapers), it’s also more convenient if your little one already knows how to use the toilet.

It may not sound like a big deal when you’re not a parent yet, but as a first-time mother to a toddler, it feels as if I somehow won the lottery. Yes, the sense of accomplishment is that incredible.

The thing is, I’m sure other mums have told you, it’s not easy. There’s never such thing as someone just breezing through the process. If there is, it’s one in a million. Any mother I talk to says the same thing: it’s messy and challenging.

You’re dealing with a child who has just discovered his independence and they will uphold and assert it in every way possible. They’ll pretty much do anything that’s the exact opposite of what you tell them just because they feel like it.

So yes, I’m telling you upfront you’re going to need every bit of patience you can muster. Trying to learn how to potty-train your child is both dreadful and exciting. But for the most part, you just want to get it done.